HTHGS:
Loose vaginal canal (Written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shannon and Claudette,
I have been faithful for over a year now to my fiancé some times when we have
sex he says that it feels different (loose) this has caused a lot of argument
and dispute. I can't explain it. if you can shed any light on this subject that
would be wonderful. Thanks,
Wondering WV
Dear WV,
We were wondering if he has accused you of “cheating?” Is that why you
mentioned that you have been faithful? Is that what the arguments and
disputes are about? It is absolutely possible that you were totally
monogamous and still feel different. The walls of the vagina are like any
other muscle and can be strengthened and can lose muscle tone. The issue
that we are concerned about is trust. If he is accusing you of cheating
and that is why he thinks it feels different there may be issues about trust and
honesty that need to be discussed and addressed. There are exercises you
can do to strengthen the contractions of your vaginal walls but if he
doesn’t trust you it wouldn’t matter if you had a vice in your pants!
We recommend that you both have a radically honest conversation about what is
going on for the both of you to try to work out the level of trust and fears
going on for one another. Shan & Claude
Dear WV,
In addition, to talking to your partner about the issue of cheating as Shan
& Claude suggest, you may want to focus on strengthening your PC muscles.
Having tight PC muscles will make your ‘vaginal canal’ feel tighter. Strong
PC muscles not only give you more control over your orgasm, but intensifies
them. Lastly, some women report that by simply flexing their PC muscles while
the guy is inside of them, that they can make him cum! http://www.howtohavegoodsex.com/locating_your_pc_muscle.htm
Written
by Alex Robboy, LCSW