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How to have good sex
Spicing Things Up
Ask Lancie,
I have been with this girl for 4
months off and on. The relationship sometimes get boring. What do you
think I should do to spice things up? I want to have sex with her
but, she wants to wait. What should I do to change her mind? Bored
Dear Bored,
There are several ways to spice up
a relationship.
First you could try the romantic
angle.
-Take her to the beach and watch
the sunrise
-Make her a candlelight dinner at
home
-Take her away for the weekend
camping or to a bed and breakfast
-Go to a club and dance all night
-Go on a picnic
-Go swimming naked under the
moonlight
-Go to Victoria's Secret and have
her give you a fashion show (buy the best one if you can afford it)
Second you can try the excitement
angle.
-Teach her how to do one of your
favorite sports, i.e. mountain biking, ice hockey
-Learn how to do one of her
favorite sports i.e. yoga, snow boarding, rollerblading
-Learn how to do something new
together, i.e. jumping out of an airplane, cooking
-Take up a hobby together, i.e.
pottery, painting, playing chess, hiking
Third you can try spicing it up in
the bedroom.
-Finger paint each others naked
body
-Decorate each other with food and
lick it off
-Explore each others body in the
dark and in the light
-Please her orally and have her
please you
-Give each other a massage
-Blind fold one another and let the
other undress you ( this helps to build trust also)
-Put on a strip show for each other
-Some like to tie each other up and
do some free exploration (this also works on trust)
Just use your imagination a little
bit and try to create ways in which you are both being satisfied.
Four months is relatively quick to be getting bored in a new
relationship. If these tips do not work with your current girlfriend, you
may want to try them in the future to add adventure to an already
exciting relationship.
There is nothing I can tell you
that will make this girl want to go to bed with you. That decision is
solely up to her. You can make sex more attractive by turning really
turning her on, however, in the endNo means No. Remember both of you
can still enjoy a variety of sexual experimentation without
intercourse.
This tip is originally written by
Lancie Martin Mazza, LCSW
