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In response to your question, the noise that you are hearing is likely to be caused by air trapped inside the vaginal canal. Thus, to stop the noise, simply let the air out. You can do this by having the guy pull his penis all the way out. Then after 30 seconds, he should re-enter his penis into the vaginal canal slowly. If this method fails, and the noise still bothers you, you may want to experiment with letting yourself get “drier” sometimes, the “wetness” can facilitate air suction. However, this is not a method I recommend. Being wet is actually a good sign. Being wet tends to indicate sexual excitement and decreases the chances of having vaginal irritation from friction.

Some cultures consider “noisy sex” to be a sign of “good sex,” thus I am wondering what you find so embarrassing about the noise. The noise is a natural part of sex. I wondering if instead of focusing on ways to stop the noise, what would happen if you focused on how to get comfortable with the noise?

Ways to enjoy noisy sex

	Put on loud music – then you do not have to hear it
	Try to make the noise to the beat of the music that you are playing
	Practice laughing when you make noises, it’s funny

This tip was originally written by Alex Robboy, LSW

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	Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. The purpose of this site is to share information. Thus, if you have any ideas, thoughts or information that you believe others might benefit from, please e-mail your tip to alex@howtohavegoodsex.com and I will be sure to include it on either our weekly newsletter or here on the actual website.
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