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HTHGS: Depo Prevera (Written by Dr. Erika Pluhar)

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 Me and my boy friend have a very active sex life and he's noticed that I'm very tight even though we had sex minutes before. I never thought anything of it till recently when we went on vacation. We started having sex and it hurt a lot and there was blood. I could have sworn that I lost my virginity again. Every time we have sex it is like that even if we've had it minutes before. It has been like that even since I started on the birth control shot Depo Prevera. Can the shot make you tighter and if it can't then is there something wrong with me? thanks,  confused

Dear Confused,
Thank you for your question.  I would encourage you to make an appointment with a medical practitioner to get the symptoms you describe checked out. Any time there is bleeding or pain during intercourse, it could mean you have a medical problem that needs to be properly evaluated and treated. It may be something as simple as needing additional lubrication during intercourse, but since you describe bleeding and pain, it may be something else.  Either way, I strongly suggest you get a check-up with your gynecologist, a primary care physician or nurse practitioner.  If you do not have an established clinician, you also could go to a Planned Parenthood or county clinic in your area.  I wish you the best of luck and thank you again for your question. Sincerely,
Erika

 

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