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How to have good sex
Cumming
too quickly (written by a subscriber)
I used to have the
problem that many men have, that of Cumming too quickly when having sex. It used
to irritate me like mad, all I really cared about was pleasuring my partner and
I felt that me ejaculating within a few thrusts of coitus was just not up to the
job. We'd spoken about it briefly but I'd got embarrassed and said, "Don't
worry - I'll try harder".
Then one time after
the usual had happened, I went so far as to reveal to my partner that I didn't
enjoy sex. I was embarrassed at my performance and not being able to last longer
and although it was a pleasurable physical stimulation, the mental trauma I was
enduring was almost too much.
To my surprise my
partner took offence at this comment. She thought that the reason I didn't enjoy
sex was her - was she doing something wrong, was she not being vocal enough or
making the right faces. Slowly as we talked I began to understand that she DID
enjoy having sex with me, the intimacy was enough to stimulate her, never mind
the actual back-and-forth. So I decided to just mentally let go and not worry
about how long I was lasting, now I knew that my partner was enjoying it
whatever happened I could get to enjoying sex.
As you can probably
guess, I suddenly became far more able to last longer now I was not committed to
lasting longer. Longer-lasting sex is more pleasurable but please make sure
your readers understand there is far more to sex than just the act of
penetration and orgasm. My partner and I now enjoy great sex, not because it
lasts longer, but because we both just enjoy it without worrying about
performance, length, speed or anything else. Sex is fantastic, just enjoy it!
I hope this little
story goes some way to helping a few of your readers, the methods sometimes
outlined in this newsletter I guess do work, but most of the problem is in a
man's mind. CJ
