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This is Jasbir from Bramptom Canada. Actually I have a problem. Whenever we I and my b/f haves sex he ejaculates early and I am left unsatisfied due to lack of penetration though he eats me out but the desire to get IT remains , we have tried 2-3 times and now we are going together married soon. I hope you will answer and help me thanks Jasbir

Dear Jasbir (from Canada),
What you have described is quite common.  However, not everyone seeks help! We are glad that you are investigating how to get your needs met.  There are many things a couple can do to help prolong intercourse or pleasure.  There are sexual toys - if it is the penetration that you enjoy.  There are actually a variety of sexual toys that you may enjoy!  Check out our sex toy department or attend a session on these issues at our howtohavegoodsex.com website!  There are physical techniques that you can practice, separate or together, that can help prolong or postpone his orgasm.  There are books written on it and websites.  Most involve the man practicing and rehearsing how to hold-off orgasm.  Some techniques include stopping and relaxing just before orgasm while others involve squeezing the tip of the penis to halt orgasm and “last longer.”  We recommend that you seek a more detailed book or website on sexual techniques.

May we ask you a question?  Does he know how you feel?  Does he know your needs?  Have you explained your situation to him?  The best part of being able to communicate about these issues is that you will have fun practicing how to reduce or illuminate the problem!  We encourage you to tell him exactly what you have told us (if you already haven’t). May you enjoy every minute of your learning,
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